before you start it up (again), I would definitely check and recheck (even if you are getting a headache) just so your are 100% certain everything is in place, torqued and aligned appropriately BEFORE firing it up.
Try contacting bmwpower on here via a PM, he reassembled my M42 and can probably help out as well. I think I recall him stating the same that the cam gear bolts were not 100% "centered" - I could be wrong or right, so do PM him as he surely would be able to check out this thread and possibly assist (if he's not too busy). In fact, I'm pretty sure he has digital pics of my M42 as he was assembling it too... probably another version or possible same or better than those already posted (based on angles, etc).
One other thing, did you determine what the "pressure" was when manually cranking over the engine? You mentioned it a few times and I'm just wondering if you checked all areas as recommended by others before you fire it up - have you found out why you have a slight "squeak" or "pressure" - if so, what was the problem?