I have them, they work fine. Don't remember how I did it, but the method came off the internet... which two methods did you try?
OK, I'll have to look at my car, 'cause that is not how I did it - I have my fogs with the highs as well as without the headlights at all.I'll let you know, but it will probably be a few days before I get to it.
Try this :http://www.timthurber.com/frontfogs.htmlGood luck,Eugene
I have always had the modified relay work for me. It did on 2 of my m42s as well as another guy's m42. Excuse the crappy pic - I just took it and I was in a rush. Take the fog relay outRun a wire from prong # 85 to the tab directly infront of it and bend it down as shown in the picTest it before you solder the wire (excuse my crappy solder - hey it works!!)Plug it back in - Turn the parking lights on & press the fog light switch.Solder the wire upon verifying it works.