i figured i'd just buy a new sensor, its only $6.50.
And guess how things are today:
its like 48 degrees F outside, so i was driving my car, and it was running at 3/4 temp, then after a little hard driving it started going into the red. I popped the hood and checked the lower passenger side coolant hose, stone cold. Then guess what else. After driving for a little while, the gauge settled on a tiny bit over 1/2 and stayed there ever since. Also the whole time, the radiator and lower passenger hose were stone cold. But the temp never went up to 3/4 again.
This is totally weird, i didn't even do anything to the car today. What the poop is going on?