Hey guys, here's my update.........
I also found that the stumbling problem is more pronounced when the A/C is on, it will buck even more and harder then with the A/C off.
A guy at work has been helping me, he's been into europeans for a while so he has a better idea about bosch style systems. Anywho, I unplugged the o2 sensor and drove it for about a day to see how it would. By doing this, the car stays in open loop I think. Anywho, I didn't stumble, even with the A/C on, so he was thinking it was the 02 sensor. Changed that today, unhooked the battery to reset the DME and that didn't fix it. He also has an E30 318, so we swapped out his AFM to see if that would fix it and that didn't do anything either.
I also found that if I just stomp the gas at idle, it will stumble really hard, and continue to stumble almost to 5k, then will smooth out. My buddy was telling me it sounded like it was backfiring into the intake. The ICV shouldn't affect anything other then idle qualities correct?
Any ideas from that?
I hate to just throw parts at it, I just don't have the money for that. If I have to, I guess I will.