I am so
very familiar with this problem...

What I ended up doing was taking my Dremel and very carefully hacking a 'notch' out of the stub of the bushing that remained in the car. I was then able to use a drift and hammer to collapse the metal away from the car body and, eventually, get the remnants out. Took over an hour on each side.
There was no way to get at it from the top, couldn't get the extreme angle necessary to hit just the bushing out.
It would seem that there was no antisieze put on those things when they were originally installed, so after many years of direct contact, the parts pretty much weld themselves together. Not entirely, but enough that both my bushings broke rather than come out.
Be patient and work carefully, and
liberally coat that new bushing when you put it in.

