Mine has never made noise, but I bought it with 190,000 miles and only have 233,000 miles on, so only 43,000 miles (which is what, about 70,000 km)?
Of course, I replaced the parts and bolts with new stuff about 200,000 miles, so about 50,000 km ago...
The first connection, I presume you are talking about the connection to the transmission? New ones aren't that expensive. Still, get under there and push and pull and hit (with a rubber hammer, or perhaps your arm) and see if you can find the rattle.
You CAN weld it. It'll make it harder to remove, perhaps. Since I don't have a welder, I went the other way.
-Guy