Maybe you just put it back together at BDC? If you did it all the same way it might all be OK, shouldn't matter. Check it from top to bottom (take it back apart if you have to) and then figure out why that crank gear won't stay put. I'd start off at TDC this time, it's just easier that way.
If you put it together the exact same way and the crank gear stayed with the crank, it should be OK. If the timing is off a tooth or two it might have backfired. Could be that the coils are timed wrong so it won't fire, could be the crank sender, could be lots of other things. Even if it's the bent valve "worst case scenario," chalk it down to experience. I've killed cars myself (though they deserved to die). See what your mechanic says & go from there.
After putting it all together, I leave the plugs out & spin the motor around a few times with a wrench on the crank bolt. That way if it sticks or doesn't want to spin, I can resolve the trouble before spinning it with the starter.
Used M42s are still pretty cheap from early e36s and the car is relatively common. There aren't a lot of people that liked the car, I'm not sure why. Might be because the car was cheap for a Bimmer and the snobs avoided them. The early e36M42's had some teething troubles that didn't help either. I think the car is one of BMW's best, but I've been drinking the Kol-Aid for a while now. Sure tastes good!
