Got some progress!! I got her to "idle" properly when the AFR is in the correct range.
I know a lot of you are wondering why the engine even started with 40# injectors in the first place. Barrie from midnight tuning help enlighten me: I have the LC-1 WBO2 kit installed and apperantly it can somewhat trick the ecu into dumping less fuel.
This sparked the idea of vacuum leaks. unmetered air entering the engine along with extra fuel would result in a better AFR, higher rpm (idle) and a wondering idle. Soapy water revealed massive quantities of air leaks. took it apart and back together with an extra care to avoid any leaks, fixing any holes in the fabbed manifolds. No air leaks this time. The result: a really rich start, to the point it won't idle unless i play with the fuel pump (on/off), when turned off, the AFR gets leaner, engine runs smoother, nice idle when AFR is around 12-15:1 then idle goes to hell when fuel pump is just momentarily on and AFR goes back to 9:1. will post a video shortly.
So now i'm starting more and more to think that i wasn't so crazy to try and see what would happen with stock fuel system. pretty sure i would of gotten a nice steady idle if it wasn't for the massive vacuum leaks. No boost at idle, -20"Hg PSIG
conclusion: check for vacuum leaks before doing anything, even if you're positive there ain't any.