locknut - washer - shock mount - washer
(or something like that)
there are pics at zoso's website, except that his server is not responding right now --mike, put another quarter in the machine!!
I don't have a great shot of the E46 rear shock mounts... the suspension install was nearing completion (had already finished the fronts). The beers started catching up to my friend and I... so I forgot to take pictures of everything.


Quarter inserted.

The benefit of my web server is that it has basically unlimited space and is free since it's in my house.
The downside is that my cable modem's uplink speed sucks. My wireless internet gateway/router also sucks. If turn on a bit torrent, the router can't keep up with all the IP level connections. The first thing it drops is DNS requests, incoming web requests, and the wireless network connections (my wife HATES that). After that it totally pukes and I can't even surf the web.
Back to the original topic:
The E46 RSM are the best ones BMW has made so far. Make sure you also get the Z3 reinforcer plate for the RSMs. From what I've read, they really help. There are aftermarket solid ones and ones made of urethane, but they do nothing to absorb noise, vibrations, or harmonics. I don't want my BMW feeling like a tank... I want some comfort. I think the E46 RSMs with with Z3 reinforcer plates are a great compromise.
One more thing:
For a long time, I thought my E46 RSMs sucked because I heard a lot of clunking back there over bumps. It turned out that the clunking was actually the muffler bouncing around due to loose hanger bushings.