What kind of offset do the M3 wheels have, 40mm? The alignment is hopefully way off, and the M3 isn't much different than your car.
First, I'd go get it aligned and talk to the tech. You need to do that anyway, and he might have a good suggestion. Might be that your toe is way out of whack, maybe some camber would help, hard to say. It might be that you'll need M3 control arms & offset bushings to get the most out of your wheels. They're slightly different than your current arms.