Believe it or not - it's not as complicated as it sounds. Make sure to disconnect harnesses and wires. Main engine harness, afm, reverse light, heater core hoses, power steering canister, ground wires etc. Disconnect the harness at the ECU and pull it out into the engine bay. Much easier that way. Label the fuel intake and outlet lines, label the coolant lines at the heater core and all other harnesses if you're gonna be putting it back in or replacing it with another car.
Once you take your time and have good lighting you will see if you forgot anything. Prepare ahead of time by soaking the exhaust bolts at point of disconnection with pb blaster. IF you're gonna pull the tranny with the motor, make sure you angle the car the right way etc. It's been a while since I did it but it's very intuitive.
A/C stuff is supposed to be legally evacuated using proper equipment but u can do as u please so far as you don't tell us what you did. You can unbolt the compressor with the lines still attached to it and "hang it" with an old coat hanger the same way you do when you hang calipers. You will however have to disconnect the condensor and that's where you will pass gas :p