I tryed turing it on but it back fired and it will not turn on no more
No i turned it by hand like three time
If you "turned it by hand", once, twice or even three times - there's no way the engine or vehicle would have ever have "backfired"....
Sounds to me (and others) that you tried starting the vehicle w/ the key after you had it all back together... that + engine being out of time = very bad move... especially since you already stated that the timing was off and nothing was lined up properly...
These engines are interference engines - when the timing is off (or if somehow the chain breaks or slips), the valves will crash into the pistons... and that *could* equate to instant head death OR complete engine death (especially if it occured at high rpm or normal driving speed)... Even if the timing was off and you started the vehicle in your driveway, you're inviting instant valve to piston mashing, which at the miminum leaves you with bent valves... If the valves met the pistons and you are STILL trying to start the vehicle, you're only causing more damages... STOP.
There are quite a few VERY GOOD tech threads on here as to how to replace an M42 head and/or the timing components - which also includes the do's and don't's ...
I suggest searching for those threads and reading them thoroughly - and if you don't have one already (or a link to it), also follow the Bentley or the E30 repair manual.... Try to get the timing squared up properly, turn the engine over by hand, then once you can confirm you have everything lined up & timed properly, try to start the engine... If the engine does not start or you cannot turn it over by hand, it's time to pull off the head and check the valves for damages (as well as checking anything else for damages).