Okay I finally am able to look at my car because I am home, I tried multiple things, First tried looking at the plugs, and they were good. Secondly, unconnected battery and waited to reset the computer.
I unhooked the AFM and it made the problem that I was having 20 times worse.
New related problem also. At about 3500RPM on the freeway occasionally the car will have a loss in power, not quite bogging, but as iff there is no explosion in the combustion chamber. In addition it may have "bounces" in power where the motor will jump a bunch until I have fully accelerated out of it.
during the warm up phase, as it bogs down it backfires if I keep my foot on the gas.
Thanks
turn the key to "on" and push the gas pedal 5 times to the floor within 5 seconds. this should start the code giving. they are 4 digits and start with 1.
Tried this, no codes, then I made a fool out of myself by trying other ways I can find out.