Hey, just signed up, mainly because Im having this same issue (or very close). Im sure its fuel control related. Reason you notice the hesitation is because the engine is getting too much gas, and you need the throttle open for a couple secs to burn it off, then you get normal performance again, if you didn't realize (at least thats my problem). Engine sounds
exactly like it did when I flooded my engine with gas for the time when its not accelerating properly. Though I do believe that its that the car is getting too little air, not too much gas - ive had a couple problems in the past with my air system (ICV/AFM/O2sensor), so Im sure its one of those acting up on me. Think thats why the revs are dieing as well (my car isn't stalling, but the idle goes from 800-500 at lights) - too little, air suffocating the engine, revs drop, ICV realizes and brings revs back up, etc...
Im getting a new muffler installed on tuesday and letting my mechanic take a look at the problem before I rip stuff apart myself
