I've ran various oils in my trans. Royal Purple Synchromax, a mix of Synchromax and RP 75W90 and a mix of Redline MTL and 75W140 NS. All were perfectly fine with varying results concerning shift effort, smoothness ect...Neither of the ones mentioned caused any grinding in my trans.
If you don't track/autox your car often Royal Purple Synchromax is the way to go. But if you do track/autox often, run a mix of Synchromax and 75W90. Very good results and allows much easier cold temp shifting than the Redline mix I mentioned. You can also run the mix of Redline D4ATF and 75W140 NS, again only if you're running the car hard at high temps.
What you DON'T want to mix are GL-4 fluids with GL-5 fluids.