well after many hours of troubleshooting the igniting system, there is nothing wrong with that... and i need to correct myself, it's cylinder 2 and 4 that are not firing. I really suspect that one of those cylinders wasn't working before too as acceleration wasn't that great and stumbled a bit, but i never knew how the m42 was originally...
Then another cylinder gave up and now it was down to two cylinders... So we tore apart the intake manifold, upper and lower, to pull the injectors. one was physically broken as the plastic tip piece was disconnected from the injector and fell into the intake valve area... got it out and put a 12v source to it to open it and it barely clicked and let out the rest of the fuel compared to the other 3 injectors... so that was shot and i am now ordering new injectors (2) to put in for cylinders 2 and 4. So we'll see if that fixes this problem.
i got this car b/c I blew the motor in my chrysler and now im working on it more than my chrysler

well if anyone has any other suggest or words of wisdom, let me know!
thanks