I will be joining you soon. A local wrecker supplied me with the OBC, harness and turn-stalk. I only need the coding plug.
The coding plug is a whopping $60+ everywhere I have checked. So, and this is a long shot, can I borrow someone's? I took apart the plug from the 325e the OBC came from and have identified the little chip inside. I can pretty easily build a tool to read the values out (the chip only holds a WHOPPING 32 bytes lol).
SO, I would not need to hurt/take apart your plug at all, just plug in a radio shack connector and read the values with a PIC microcontroller. I would shoot you like $20 or something for the trouble and shipping. Literally, I would just plug the plastic housing into a generic header and read the values...no prying or anything.
Let me know if you can help me save a little $, and I can probably start producing these for people who would need them for a very low price! Thanks!