You idle at 2K rpm? thats reeeaalllyy high, i drive below that most of the time

Probably because im a cheap Hippy who wants to save the rain forest, but not as much as i want to save myself money

I get the same thing that you do. When i shut the engine off, its almost as if the engine kicks from left to right.
i also get the same kinda thing when going from on throttle to off throttle quickly, almost as if the engine is jumping around because i can feel the car jerk because of it.
I think my only solution is fitting new gearbox mounts, as thats what ive been told is the problem. It should be too much hassle though, ill probably wait and do it when im putting in my 6 speed trans.