the KYB on my wrx are very sturdy and strong, no quality complaints. With german cars, however, i like to upgrade mainly with stuff from that country...
It depends on your goals with this car, if i get a 318is my main goals will be suspension awesomeness, and despite not having much money i will work extra to get bilst. and IE stg 3s.
i wouldnt reccomend the tokicos, i have heard bad reviews about their adjustables on several vw's...different cars i know but still.