Haha well, if this is your daily driver then I probably know how you feel. I tested everything repeatedly, tried disconnecting various sensors to see if it would at least run better in "limp" mode, you name it (though I did not try it without the AFM connected...that never goes too well). It seemed extremely unlikely that it was the AFM causing the cut-out, but ended up being that. A few other guys on here have had the same issues, and remedied them by replacing the AFM.
If you want to try a "good" one out let me know. The one from my car gave me no troubles when I smogged it a month ago. It seemed to get bad only in cold weather. For the cost of shipping you can borrow mine if you like. It'd probably be around $12. Then again, if you still get parts hookups or have a Worldpac account then you can probably get a new one cheap.