Wow I am really sorry to hear about this. Aside from the leak in the head, did you check the thermostat housing thoroughly? There is a little bypass groove, that if plugged, will prevent you from bleeding the air out and can prevent the tstat from opening (prevents hot water from getting to it). If you used some sort of gasket sealer on the housing gasket, it might have plugged it, or it was just clogged.
Anyway, best of luck to you. I will keep an eye out for a used head.