You said this was from BMW's website? Where can I find wiring diagrams?
I think he is running a Megasquirt, so the WBO2 would be fine. I am running an LC-1 WB kit on mine and hooked most of it up to the OE harness. I DID jump some terminals on the O2 heater relay though, so I could get power in accessory mode rather than just while running.
If you end up wanting to do this, I can show you what I did. I pulled the relay out, and jumped 2 wires. I also had to wire in a dummy resistor across the relay actuator or whatever or else the Motronic tosses a fault out.