As a tip for those of you who go through this. Look at the picture carefully. Then go look at your car.
The hose from the valve cover goes to the "nipple" under the throttle body.
The hose from the "intake bellow" simply goes to the the ICV.
It's only made more complex by the fact that BMW designers "held" vaccum and coolant lines together.
If you want to do the TB coolant supply delete. Simply route the coolant out of the head and back in or cap it off at your own risk. I will NOT label this as the chosen method as some are suspectible of making a mistake or misreading and thus causing an overheating situation which then leads to you know what.
As mentioned earlier, simply take the intake bellow and intake manifold off and you will be able to take your time and engineer something nice and reliable. It's a good time to replace the intake mani. gasket and end up with a 100% smooth idle as well

Thanks for the pics above Rob_e30!!