Well I discoverd my auxiliary fan isn't working the hard way.
A few days ago I left the car idling while I was taking some pictures and noticed I was leaking coolant.. I run over to the car and turn it off, the gauge was nearly to the 3/4 mark. I popped the hood and traced where the leak was coming from, right by the radiator cap. I was only 2 miles from home so I let the car cool down a bit and drove home, on the way home the temp was fine and wasn't going past 1/2. Get home and let it sit to cool down enough to open the cap, while sitting not a drop leaked out. I open the the cap and see theres a little hole at the top of the chamber that looked to be a overflow hole maybe? The car had been a little over filled on coolant when I got it and I thought it was maybe just getting rid of the excess water. My buddy has a e30 325 and he said his car did the same thing and it didn't happen again, so I continued to drive it with no problems. But his cars cooling system is different cause it has an external reservoir.
Yesterday I was on the freeway and ran into some traffic at the tolls, sitting still idling the temp starts going up. I drove down the shoulder not wanting to end up with a dead car in traffic and as I was going down the shoulder (5mph) the temp went right back down. I managed to get back into the traffic right at the toll and continued with no temp problems.
Last night I let the car sit and idle under close watch, sure enough the auxiliary fan never kicked on and the car started to get warm, shut it off and now I'm gonna dig into the fan.
I was told when I had my e36 325 that if it goes above 1/2 that the motor probably blew the head gasket or overheated cause the gauge is pretty dumb and only goes up when its too late. Is this the same case on our motor's? The oil cap and spark plugs show no sign of water, and the car still runs fine. Anyone else run into this issue? And what is too hot for our motors?