Welcome.
Get yourself a Bentley repair manual.Actually get two ,one for the body (3 series 84-90) and one for the motor ( 3 series 92-98 ). They will help you throughout your ownership.
It doesn't sound like your car is overheating . Maybe check the fluid level and make sure the coolant system has been bled correctly.Check belt tension .There is only one thermostat for your car . It should be a 88* (celsius) . The temp guage maybe off a little.
Does your heater work well ?
Does the temp go down when you turn the heat on ?
When was the last time the coolant system was flushed out ?
Do some basic maintenance on the cooling system .I wouldn't just start replacing parts unless you have a lot of money .Get the manuals and do some research first .
I know you will enjoy your car ,
another brilliantrot into the fold .
Good Luck and welcome again
