According to the Bentley manual, 975g (2.1lbs) of R12, 200cc of oil, back of the compressor on my '91 318is specifies "Denso Oil-6." I don't know what the equivalent viscosity for that is in mineral oil, but when I did my R134A conversion recently I used ISO46 oil.
From what I've seen put an ounce of oil in the condenser, an ounce in the drier, and the remainder in the compressor. It would be worth your while to have the system flushed professionally or at least buy a pressurized flush-in-a-can, it's difficult to get all of the old crud out of the system, especially if someone before you used stop-leak. Ask me how I know.