The suspension on the two are different
The front:
* Different struts
* Different dampers
* Different springs
* Differet brakes
* Different geometry.
* Diferent track width.
* Different rack and pinion with fewer turns lock to lock
* Different swaybars + mountig points
The rear:
* Same geometry
* Different springs
* Different dampers
* Different brakes
* Different track width
* Different swaybars (Same mounting points)
As far as I know, the front ARB is the same diameter, but due to the pickup on the strut, the leverage is less on the M3 (so stiffer). Front springs on the earlier M3s were exactly the same as the 318is. Geometry differences were dictated by the control arm bush, adding a little extra castor.
For the rear, the ARB was the same. The trailing arms were 12 degree instead of 10 degree (or was it the other way around?). I think this was done to have slightly better toe/camber control.
Regarding track width - was this done by offsetting the wheels? I don't think the suspension pickups were widened. If so, the extra leverage would counteract the increase stiffness of the suspension somewhat.