From time that thread was started I have installed vibration damper on driveshaft and OEM front silencer. I can tell now for sure that is no more vibration on 2 till 3 Krpm range, but vibration resonance exactly at 2800 rpm.
I still not bought new engine mounts, cause if it will not fix a problem, it will mean that 200$ gone for nothing. So desicion is not easy.
Meantime was browsing internet for "2800 rpm resonance" - most frequently this happens with M3, M5 and some Porsche. Causes were: "something with exhaust", engine mounts, chain tensioner.
For Rockauto - I'm not sure that will get it in Eastern Europe ).