Alright, this problem just got a hell of a lot more confusing. I have my fuse box open at this point with the diode removed and some electrical tape over the ends of the leads for it so I can drive the car around. Picked up a couple 1 amp diodes from radio shack. Got back, checked fuse 19 and it's blown again. I replace it, turn the car to on (with the engine off) and start testing around to see what is blowing it. Jumped the temp switch to high and low, messed with my electric mirrors, ran the blower, turned the ac on and off. No problems, everything works fine (except for the aux fan coming on with the ac obviously because I still have no diode installed).
I still have the temp switch jumped so the aux fan is running, I start the engine and it immediately blows the fuse. WTF? I have been studying the ETM for a couple hours now and I can not see how having the car running would blow the fuse but with just the ignition on it is fine.
Anyway, on to part 2 of my confusion:
Even though it makes no sense I decide to see if having the diode disconnected could be causing this problem so I moved on to that issue.
Hooked one up with test leads first before I bothered soldering it in properly. Turned car to on with engine off) hit the ac button and the diode immediately went up in smoke. I double checked that I had hooked it up the correct direction and it was. Next step I tried was leaving the ac button on and jumping together the leads for the diode. The fan did not come on like it should have and the test lead started getting warm like there was a short so I unhooked it right away. The aux fan temp switch was unplugged at the time so no complications there.
I'm assuming these 2 problems are related but I can't figure out how.
One more test: With the high speed relay pulled the aux fan comes on at low setting with either side of the temp switch jumped and with the low speed relay pulled it will run at high speed with either of the positions jumped. Something is not right here.