If it's not the relay it's likely the CPS. Without the crank sensor signal the computer won't turn on the relay, so no fuel pump.
On the crank sensor wire, pins 1 & 2 need to be about 640 ohms, pins 2 & 3 and 1 & 3 should be very high, like 300K ohms or so. I looked at your earlier post...you did test the sensor, right? Not the harness heading back to the computer, right? If so, don't do that. Doing a resistance or continuity test on the harness can damage the computer.
I'd advise getting a cheap multimeter at Radio Shack, Sears or Harbor Freight. They're self-calibrating, do many tests, and are very reasonable. I bought a few of the $4.99 HF units (along with some of those cheap LED flashlights) just to have in the cars. You never know when you'll need one!