another thing i never thought to look into when i was researching this the first time-
the e30 and e36 versions of the M42 intake cam have different part numbers.
e30 part: 11311727137
e36 part: 11311734118
(i also used realoem to check euro vs US, because the euro m20b25 cam is "sportier" than the one we got here in the states... however, for the m42 they are the same on both sides of the pond.)
unfortunately, without having someone sitting down and manually degree all 4 available cams (intake and exhaust side for e30 & e36 versions), it's pretty much a shot in the dark as to which would have the most aggressive profile- the e36 version could be "improved", or it could just as easily be a "torquier" grind spec'd for the heavier car. and yeah, just because the internet says the cams are the same specs doesn't make it necessarily so... this applies to both M50 and M42.
swapping the intake cam over to the exhaust side works on some VW and Nissan engines as well, which is why i started wondering if it'd work on the m42.
& yeah, you'd definitely want a chip remap to go with a regrind, if you were to go that route. i've got a 91-oct MarkD chip, as well as the dbilas ITB setup, and i've got a 4-1 header coming soon, so it could be worth it for me to try a regrind on the intake side...
i'm guessing you're in the UK? you could try asking around e30zone to see if anyone has/knows of a spare m42, or has upgraded their cams already... would love to hear results if you try it.