I usually listen for adequate flow at operating temps when figuring the best oil. I used to put in a pressure gauge but I'm too lazy for that now. I guesstimate with the second number for that, it describes the oil's viscosity when hot. From what I've read, the "base" oil is formulated from that warm temperature viscosity and then polymers (Viscosity Improvers) are added to increase cold flow. As a personal preference, I go with the smallest range of viscosity modifiers I can live with...5w30, for instance. If I get cold-start lifter clatter I'll get something with more VI's, like 0w30.
With the BMW I started with 40-weight (10w40) & worked my way down to 30-weight. The car didn't seem happy with 0w20, but that's just an opinion, no hard facts.
However, my minivan's 3.0 liter Ford V6 specs 0w20 year-round and seems pretty happy with that. I always use Mobil1, IDK if it's a real synthetic but IMHO it's decent oil and the price is right (Wally World is usually around $28/5L). My old motorcycle runs well on 10w40, but the clutch won't lock up properly unless it has non-"energy conserving" oil (the bike shares motor oil with a wet clutch & transmission). Depends on the motor, that's what I'm trying to get at.
I'm also running thin oils to help with fuel mileage. BMW uses a sliding scale for oil viscosity. They spec 10w40 for expected winter temps (-20 to +50 degF) and 20w50 for expected summer temps (15 to 125 degF). Very thick oil, that. They don't make any adjustment for synthetics in original literature.