a lot of owners are frustrated with bleeding this system, while it was straight forward for me, so i guess it did make a big difference even though i drilled a smaller hole than the oem wahler. as for rtv, its good to use to avoid coolant leaks, since its a high pressure area. for this application rtv blue is recommend. theres a bunch of sealing/silicone products out there, its your choice if you want to bother with them. for my oil pan i just used the gasket.