Standard front sway bar on all M42 and M20 E30s is 20mm with no factory upgrade.
The only factory option is a 21mm unit that was standard on all convertible models part#31351132337
Factory rear sway bar on all e30s was 12mm with a 14.5mm upgrade for those that checked the mtech box.
the 14.5mm unit came standard on the 325ix, part# is 33551129194.
Both are the beefiest options available. Remember to get the right bushings and mounts - They are diameter specific.
Also, check what you have before you look for a new sway bar, you may be pleasantly surprised.