Whether ST bars are too large depends on few factors. What you plan to do with the car and your other suspension components are two that quickly come to mind.
Do you plan to autox?
For autocross I've seen the ST bars work really well with HR Race and HR Sport Springs (my application) with a 318is. The large rear bar really helps the car rotate in tight turns and resulted in quicker times for me. That said, in the slaloms the larger rear bar can often preload too much and tranfer too much of the cars weight which can cause a spin.
Do you plan to only drive on public roads?
If yes, the ST bars are probably overkill combined with your H&R Race Springs. The car will be more uncomfortable and will often exhibit too much oversteer in wet weather.
With my softer Sport Springs the ST combo works pretty well.
Do you plan to attend Track Days?
I have no experience here, but I would probably be content with the Race Springs for a while.
Thanks for the opinions.
I drive the car mainly on public roads. With that said, I am a little worried about oversteer when I'm pushing the limits on windy, fast mountain roads. As of now, the rear end will slightly step out when on the limit (on occasion), a little scary but I have confidence in my driving and try to keep it safe. I don't really enjoy auto-x 100% and would like to get into road racing / track days.
At the same time, getting to a track is rare and I need to set the car up for the conditions I initially bought the car for, and that is mountain roads.
I never thought i would be worrying about oversteer in a BMW ( mainly because it as always so much fun to mess around at low speeds in a family e36 and brother's 325is) but I have been getting the e30 to be faster and faster through high speed corners.... More suspension mods mean more speed and most likely, with the addition of a LSD and bars, more fear of a big, fast and unforgiving spin.
However, maybe I could be overthinking this all. With a more controlled ride, I won't have to be running 9/10ths to get the same speed...
What about a larger front bar only? Or is both the smartest?