That was my suspicion. Thanks for the tip on the 12V+ wire. It seemed like the 12V+ wire on the new head harness was a lot thicker gauge than the wire I was supposed to connect it to

I'll try the hazard light wire as you suggested. And I agree with you, I'll probably never use the CD player itself, all I want is the AUX in for an MP3 player. Now a head unit with direct SD card and usb drive access would be pretty nice....
The guy at the store kept trying to point me towards "nicer" more fully featured units, but I kept talking about the way it looked and how it had to match the interior of the car. He thought I was crazy. This unit seemed to have a minimum of chrome and the infinitely changeable backlight color feature looks like it'll match perfect. I thought maybe making a custom sized roundel sticker to put on the volume knob for an added touch.
