IMHO - I wouldn't lube the ICV at all in really cold weather, and brake fluid isn't a good cleaner. Did you do a stomp test to see if the car has any codes?
To test the ICV, get a 9v battery and put it on the terminals. IIRC the valve should audibly 'snap' closed...and not slowly. If it's pokey, clean it out with a toothbrush and some isopropyl until it snaps shut. Also check the hoses - if there are any cracks at all, replace them. I deleted all the TB heater hoses and upgraded to silicone rubber hose from an EBay guy, that seems to have fixed the hose problem permanently.
I'd soak the valve body part in iso alcohol since it's cheap, effective and isn't all that poisonous. It also won't damage any electrical components like the ICV actuator motor if it gets in the upper part of the ICV case. You could also use TB or carb cleaner too - just don't inhale too much or get it on your skin...those VOCs are some nasty stuff.
You could also have a vac leak in there somewhere - they're a common problem. It could also be:
bad coolant temp sensor
dirty/misadjusted throttle plate
broken TPS
sticky AFM door
gunked up injectors
water in your fuel tank from a bad expansion tank or valve