There is a common problem where in the tabs that mount the sway bar and bushings really are flimsy parts, and can fatigue and break.
many people sell kits for the rear, for up front you'll probably do best making some plates and boxing the mounts in from the sides.
The kits look something like this
http://www.turnermotorsport.com/html/detail.asp?PRODUCT_ID=T30REINFNow is it necessary? if you drive hard on occasion, no, but if you start getting into some autocrossing,or install thicker diameter sway bars and stiffer springs it would be a good idea to start reinforcing different trouble areas.
As far as bushings, i don't feel like you necessarily need to do every thing, but most are probably on their way out if they were OE. I wouldn't spend alot of money on aftermarket ones in most areas of the car, again if you autocross you might make some exceptions, but for the most part they are decent. Rear subframe bushings are the hardest ones to do, but probably the most important, my cars were shot and the things would shift in corners if you hit a bump. Unnerving to the extreme.