I believe the reference is to the same parts I'm using.  I've got the parts here in my hands right now:
  
SM Flywheel from 1979 euro 323i E21 (M20)     11 22 1 264 517
clutch disk for 1990 325i;                      21 21 1 223 174 (BavAuto)
pressure plate for 1990 325i;                 21 21 1 223 026 (BavAuto)
T.O. B. to fit 'E21 323i;                        21 51 1 204 525 (BavAuto)
The pressure plate, disk and flywheel fit together perfectly.  As for fit into the car, a few days will tell.  The only open question is the need for a flywheel-to-crank spacer.  We will measure and see but I believe I can leave it out.  I think the TOB was used for several years and spans E21 and some E30. BMWFans shows this TOB being used up to March '84 in the Euro E30 323i.
Here are the other parts I'm using for my 1991 318is flywheel conversion:
flywheel bolt 28mmlong 11 22 1 717 840
pressure plate bolt 07 11 9 901 023
slave cylinder 21 52 1 116 300
alignment tool BavAuto CA83 (see note below, yours may vary)
pilot bearing 11 21 1 720 310 (BavAuto) (see note below, yours may vary)
rear engine seal 11 14 1 706 785 (BavAuto)
locating dowel 11 11 1 743 118 (Pelican)
exhaust gasket 18 30 1 711 969 (Pelican)
exhaust nuts 18 30 1 737 774 (Pelican)
Starter from 1989 325iX (Bosch), rebuilt
I'm not sure why the previous poster claimed his flywheel was 11 lbs.  Perhaps this was an estimate, or perhaps it has been lightened, but I weighed my flywheel and it came in at 13.6 lbs not including any bolts or spacers.  After resurfacing I weighed it again and it is now 13.4 lbs.  
There is a metal spacer that came with the flywheel ((pn 11 22 1 262 827).  On the E21 it was between the bolt heads and the flywheel (also shown on realOEM/BMWfans diagrams). I note that many photos of M20 flywheel conversions into 318s show that installers don't include this spacer.  I'm not sure why not, since it is a standard part used with all M20 SM flywheels as far as I can tell.   I will re-use that spacer as well in my installation.  It affects the depth to which the flywheel bolts penetrate, so is worth a mention.
 
Update:  it turns out that the pilot bearing listed above (plus alignment tool) was wrong for my car.  Further study of BMWfans shows that the Getrag 240 transmission input shaft diameter changed in Sept '90 production from small (12mm) to large (15mm).  I bought the 15mm one (above) but in fact should have got the 12 mm one:  11-21-1-709-681    Your requirement will depend on production date.
update: the rear engine seal mentioned in the parts list above did not get used for two reasons.  The mechanic did not trust the part delivered as he was not familiar with the brand, plus it turns out my rear main seal was not leaking after all.  It was transmission oil that was splashed all over the place and dripping onto my garage floor.  What a mess, on the clutch too.  Transmission sent out for repair.