I have the downloadable manual from here. But it only states an bolt order sequence, not a loosening sequence.
Page 113-6, item 32: "Using Torx E12 socket, remove cylinder head bolts in the sequence indicated. See Fig 15. Remove cylinder head and head gasket. Discard head bolts."
The figure only shows what order in which to remove the bolts. Starting from the right-most rear corner of the engine. It mentions nothing about turning each one 90* in the order shown, then another 90* in the order shown, and then pulling them all the way out. That's why I didn't do it that way. Between 3 motorcycle rebuilds, and 4 engine swaps in two cars, I've never removed a head bolt in that type of way.
Personally, I think stretch bolts were a poor design for BMW to use, but that's based on personal experience with hard bolts.
Anyway, I'll be pulling (or breaking) the rest of the bolts off by this weekend. We'll see what the final score is in the end.