Can anybody go out to their car and test whether the idle control valve buzzes or hums when the engine is off but the key is in the Run position? If you can't hear it, test with your hand and see if you feel a vibration.
On my E30 M3 you can hear the ICV buzzing clearly. But my 318iS does not buzz. Likewise, on my girlfriend's 318i M42 there is no buzz either.
I'm wondering what is supposed to be normal.