it's your pump that's pretty much dead... easy way to find out, plug an ammeter onto it. pump power rating is about 5 amps. if you get 6.5+, on idle, then change your pump. yeah it sucks. while you're at it, check inside your fuel tank for condition and rust. if tank is full of rust, your car will eat fuel pumps very fast, and require very fequent (almost every oil change) fuel filter replacement. oh and replace the fuel filter when you change your pump. checking relay... use a jumper wire. (pump will always be on)