I need to post a pseudo writeup, but basically I have a four-prong relay on my single speed electric fan (hot, ground, and two wires going to a sender I had mounted in a custom radiator hose connector,
(eg, D. Clay's comment re: the switch in the radiator must be submersed etc.)
I'm not sure about the diode etc.
how exactly do you have the sender hooked up?
I will prolly be changing coolant soon, and will send a pic of the radiator hose connected... basically a length of aluminium conduit with a bung tapped for the sender.