ok what i did is route the wire that no longer has a post to the stud coming out of the wire box that is right next to where the wire comes out, now its been a while since ive done this, and even longer since ive driven my car, but i think what this does is permanatly ground the unloader relay. meaning if you do this do not have your headlights/windows going when starting the car. Nice for cd players though as they wont have to reset when you start the car.
I actaully think that some m20 starters have the post that mine is missing, btw