Differential gear oil in the transmission? That's not a very good idea. The Getrag 260 calls for ATF fluid in the transmission. If you are looking for track/heat stability, use Redline MTL at best. It's a great product, and higher viscosity than ATF for sure.
I would certainly look for massive vacuum leak, which includes checking and cleaning the ICV. Although, the ICV really does not really play when engine is at temperature. Sure sounds like vacuum...next check ignition components, wires/plugs etc...possibly a bad coil? dunno, never had one fail.
I agree with the 'use up the brake pads' suggestion. Engine braking is unnecessary wear to expensive components...pads is cheap, and then you get to try new ones:D
cheers!