Do you have a timing light? That will tell you which cylinder is missing, but i suspect it is the oily one. If you have a wet plug, it will not fire until the engine is warm enough to evaporate the wetness (if it's fuel), or enough fuel has passed through the cylinder to wash off the oil (if it's oil). try the timing light and see if you can ID the bad cylinder. Then, pull the plug and see if it's the oily one. just for grins, swap the offending plug with another cylinder and see if the problem moves with it. If not, swap coils and/or plug wires and see if it moves. If it stays on the same cylinder, it's not the ignition. Look for a problem with the cylinder, intake, or injector.