I don't think the wiring is right on the brake. The wires match on my cruise to the brake switch. I'm thinking it can't be turned on unless you have the polarity correct. You've really covered all the bases though. I'd be willing to bet that the cruise can plug into any one of the cluster sockets, they're probably all the same signal intended for various optional sensors.
+1 on the single ground wire... I don't remember you mentioning it. It's a single brown (or brown/yellow?) wire that goes into a single white connector. I pulled mine with the little eyelet terminal intact & used that to ground it at the firewall main ground stud.
There must be some differences between the years. My harness has brown wires off the clutch switch. The brake wires were the same color as the cruise power switch, so I spliced them right in. I also noted that early cars had a different cruise stalk connector, but that can't be your trouble because they physically won't fit into a late model harness.
I'm pretty sure that's where my problem is too (brake switch). My wires do not match though. The green/red one does but the load side is green/purple and does not match my white/violet. I will try wiring it like this again and see what happens. My problem here is that I am getting +12v on my green/red wire... if I connect it to the green/red wire on my brake switch then I end up with my brake lights on at all times.
My ground wire is connected to a random ground circuit, and I tested it for continuity to ground to make sure it was good.
I also tested the speed signal wire from the cluster. I got continuity from the gauge all the way back to the cruise computer plug so I know I'm good there.
Thanks for posting Jake... much appreciated, especially the pics. I will try wiring it up just like that and see if it helps.
I'm beginning to think the problem is my LED brake light circuit honestly. Because I am using resistors and not bulbs to create resistance so that the relay doesn't freak out (hyperblink), I think I am getting small voltage on that green/red wire. Not enough to light the bulb circuit, but enough to make the cruise computer think that I am pressing the brake pedal. What do you guys think? I am leaning HEAVILY towards this actually and can't believe I didn't think of it before.